I have a soft spot for the song Proud by Heather Small, even though it’s a little overused at conferences and motivational seminars. I particularly like these lyrics
Still so many answers I don’t know
Realise that to question is how we grow
So I step out of the ordinary
I can feel my soul ascending
I’m on my way
Can’t stop me now
you can do the same.
I think “Realise that to question is how we grow” is a great line.
To me it highlights that questions are what help us know more, see more and become more. They help give us insights we might not have and each new question asked in the right way, at the right time, to the right person can offer perspective and knowledge.
We need to be constantly curious; question our assumptions, beliefs and view of the world to make sure we are in fact living reality – not some version of it, clouded by our own “stuff”.
I was with a client the other day and through our conversations and my questions to her she uncovered something that was really important to her. This discovery was at a values level that she hadn’t even realised. In fact she actually said to me “I didn’t even realise that was so important to me”
With that new perspective, which evoked previously unexplored emotions within her, she could see a whole new level of possibility for her and her business; possibility that only a few moments ago was not even apparent.
“Step out of the ordinary…” means exploring new ways of being and doing that might even be a little uncomfortable but take you to a whole new level of opportunity if only you can get out of your own way.
To elevate yourself and your business above the crowd takes remarkability and as Seth Godin says “You cannot be remarkable by following someone else who’s remarkable… the leader is the leader precisely because he did something remarkable, and that remarkable thing is now taken, so it’s no longer remarkable when you decide to do it.”
So consider how you can create remarkability for your business and those you serve, step out of the ordinary, question what you do and how you do it, be bold, take a risk, and get comfortably uncomfortable – anything else isn’t worthy of you.
You can be so many people,
if you make that break for freedom,
what have you done today
to make you feel proud?






















